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From Candy Connections to True Belonging: Why We’re Starving for Something Real
As a high school freshman, I had B lunch, which meant sitting through four classes before getting to eat. In my 4th period class, I sat in front of the hottest guy in my grade. You might be thinking, “Dr. Ashley, that’s awesome for you!” But back then, I was a pretty socially anxious teen, and I was mortified when he teased me about hearing my stomach growl.
Beneath my flaming cheeks and embarrassment, I vowed to eat a bigger breakfast the next day.
And I did.

You Are Not a Burden: Rethinking Independence
A few weeks ago, it was stupid cold in Kansas City. As I was getting ready to walk to the gym (I can’t drive because of a vision impairment), my dear friend, Barb, who lives around the corner called.
“I’m about to go run some errands. Is there anywhere you need to go?” she asked.
It was incredibly thoughtful of her to think of me and how hard it would be to walk to the grocery store during the upcoming “snowpocalypse.”
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